Because He Can Blend Right Into The Crowd Of Crazy Republicans In Texas
Meet Benjamin Sparks, big name Republican political consultant and, of course, sex pervert because the sex pervert is part is required to be a big name Republican political consultant.
Sparks made his fiancé sign a contract that pretty much made her a sex slave.
Sparks had his fiance sign a five page contract in which she agreed to be his “slave and property,” shortly after they started dating last November.
She had to be nakkid all the time, bow down to him, and a bunch of other stuff that Momma don’t need to know about.
But then he crossed the line by demanding she have sex with other men while she was bound and gagged. Yeah, there was a line.
So, a fight ensues.
Benjamin Sparks evaded police after they were called to his residence on March 29 following a domestic dispute. The fight allegedly started because Sparks’ ex-fiancee, a 46-year-old woman, refused to comply with his demand that she have sex with other men in front of him, the ex-fiancee told the Review-Journal.
Sparks, who has done political work for Mitt Romney and Scott Walker, is said to have fled to Texas and is in hiding here. He’ll blend into the Republican crowd.
Thanks to everybody for the heads up.
As if we are shocked?????
1More evidence that the more loudly someone proclaims how moral and ethical they are, the less likely that their assertions are fact-based.
2I’d be a lot more shocked if a Republican was not a pervert.
3Never meet one of them.
Do you all remember this was the SAME LINE that Jeri Ryan wouldn’t cross, starting a sequence of events that made Obama president?
4What kind of a woman would sign an agreement to be a naked sex slave in the first place?
5Scratch a Republican, find a pervert underneath.
6Linda Phipps: That was my question. She was either dumb or desperate or both.
7Linda Phipps: BDSM fantasies are quite common on the Internet. It is possible that she was convinced that she was a true submissive and would be happy to be dominated that way, only to find out that she wasn’t. Or that her “top” wasn’t really what she thought he was.
However the original article we are replying to is basically correct: there is a strong link between social conservatism and oversexed masculinity and females that respond to that. Many of them are actually quite repressed and seek camouflage by wrapping themselves in “family values” politics.
8Wait a minute. If she violated the contract, did she really expect him to take her to court over it? How does one enforce something like that? Paging Michael Cohen…
9I used The Google to try to discover anything else about Mr Sparks. No biography found. I did find a number of obituaries, but sadly, none were for this Benjamin Sparks. Even the interweb world wide thingy is too ashamed to stow and data about this Benjamin Sparks.
10But he looks so nice! Except those eyes. He’s got Republican eyes and they are really creepy.
“OK Dad, time’s up. Grampa, you’re next. Pastor, keep your dang pants on for now.. hey hon, what’s wrong?”
11And speaking of creepy Republicans (is there another kind?) read today about George Nader, confidant, advisor and fixer to Reagan, Bush, Cheney and the now one. Check out his arrests and convictions he had during his years with Reagan and Bush yet was deemed to valuable to actually lock up. Traditional Republican Values. A man truly ahead of his time.
12To call yourself a republican is to say ” if I am not an evil ahole, I at least support evil aholes!” & most likely it is both
13To have and to hold, honor and obey wasn’t enough?
He needed her to sign five more pages?
With this consultant, the devil really is in the details.
14Remember “Banned in Boston”, but “Banned in Vegas”. VEGAS! This fellow must be running for “Pride of the GOP”.
15Anything further I might say would not meet Momma’s standard and might not meet the standards of the Supreme Court
That contract violated so many laws (moral and legal) that it was illegal and unenforceable.
16How many friends does he have who want to “have sex” with a bound and gagged woman? Is it a club? Do they have a name like the “Texas Republican Party”? On second thought, don’t tell me.
17He asked her to sign this “shortly after they started dating”? And she did? I’m not saying they deserve each other, because no woman deserves that, but honey, grow some self-respect.
From what little I know about BDSM– all from hearsay, I quickly add– the apparent one on the bottom is actually supposed to be in control, because he or she can use the safe word at any time and the other character should then stop. But you’d have to trust that they WILL stop. I wouldn’t trust a GOP BDSM as far as I could throw Trump or Christie.
18As someone that used to read the Savage Love Blog, I have token knowledge of what is involved with BDSM. I believe that trust(!) is a large part of the experience. How far can one go and stay within the bounds of the relationship (and all being fulfilled) is important. Not surprisingly, even with what we view as an extreme agreement, the Rethug goes overboard on the control thing. And respecting NO! is a part of the relationship (as it should be for all) that Sparks couldn’t be bothered with.
Some people will try to find how far they can go till they get smacked upside the head. This guy apparently had to go all the way to Texas…
19You know, I never would have thought that a GUY wold read “Fifty Shades of Gray” but I guess as usual I was wrong!
20I dunno, the girlfriend says she went public so no other girl (!) would fall for Sparks’s line, but even in Las Vegas other girls (!) who might must be scarce. So I take her concern for the sistern to be unproven.
As for safe words and BDSM role-playing, I have read an academic study (restricted to homosexual men so not completely relevant) which found that the participants usually switched roles. Nice to think of Sparks nekkid in a collar and being offered to a gaggle of women (girls?) or would it be men (boys?)?
Safe words, at least in that study, were pretty useless since a third of respondents reported being injured enough to seek hospital care.
21He’s cute but not THAT cute. I can’t imagine running around the house nekkid all the time. Where’d I put my cell phone? I woulda showed him the door and tossed all his stuff out on the porch before his contract even got to multiple men for me.
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