A Necessary Diversion
Author’s Note: Today I am deviating from politics although some might be able to draw some obvious parallels. That being said, this is a bit of a warning before you read. This is not the usual social commentary.
The Jacksonville Jaguars fired their coach last night. He lasted all of 13 games. There have been numerous coaches that have only lasted one season. We can poke fun at them all we want, but I always take a step back here. Urban Meyer is the first coach in my lifetime to get fired before the end of his first season. Maybe it has happened before. Bobby Petrino famously quit before his first season was up so he could return to college. So, maybe that will have to do. The Houston Texans might be in the midst of a one and done season as well. Football fans will have to judge for themselves I suppose.
Deciding on the worst hiring is always subjective. I imagine I could levy insults, but it’s the holidays and I want to be nice. So, I’ll chronicle my own experience instead and hopefully draw some parallels. Suffice it to say, I judge based on the available information at the time.
I wasn’t exactly Ted Lasso. My sister still coaches and I coached a few years of volleyball at the freshman level. I coached for a few seasons at the club level. I even served as a successful varsity and junior varsity coach at a Catholic school. Making the jump to varsity at a 5A (now 6A competition) seemed like a logical leap. I had turned around the fortunes at the Catholic school, so maybe I could do it for the next school.
What I quickly learned is that everyone has a level of coaching/teaching where they are most comfortable and a best fit. As a coach, I was a good teacher. I could teach kids the basics successfully and those kids showed real growth. That made me a better fit for younger players. After my one season of one win volleyball, I took over as junior varsity coach and had a much more successful season.
That brings us to our combined stories of the day. Urban Meyer has been fired and David Culley feels like dead coach walking. Meyer is 187-32 at the college level. I doubt he ever coaches again after this, but you could have easily envisioned him taking another job after Ohio State at say USC or LSU and being highly successful. That’s only if he hadn’t decided to go to the NFL.
Culley had never been a coordinator in the NFL. Sometimes you get young guys that you just know will be great head coaches some day and jump the gun a little too soon. Culley is 66. If it hadn’t happened then it wasn’t going to happen. I know his position units often struggled, but we’ll give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he was a really good position coach.
I think most people have had a job where they were a fish out of water. I’ve had more than one. You discover it pretty early on and you get to a point where you just want to bail. Who knows if that is where Culley is. In that regard I kind of feel sorry for him. I’ve been there and I know how overwhelming it is. Of course, I never had any job with the kind of checks he’s getting. So, that sympathy only goes so far. Besides, we are all responsible for our own choices. They offered the job. It doesn’t mean he had to accept.
Nicely done.
You are right, I had jobs where I felt so uncomfortable knew I was the wrong person for the job
I was a health teacher K -6
I liked teaching young children and think I was good at it.
I had the opportunity to become a Master Gardener volunteer.
1And found that I love helping adults and Seniors learn about gardening.
Who knew?
Never had the opportunity before!
I would find that hitting the glass ceiling was my notification to move on. Today, the news would have us believe that it’s gone, but men still rule the roost (and wages) in most companies. You have to learn to be as ruthless as them!
2I kept reading to find where you tied it into one term and out orange guy but it didn’t happen
3So I will do it.
Grandma Ada, have you seen the commercial where the woman is totally ignored by the salesmen in the car dealership until she starts talking through a male puppet she sticks on her arm? Suddenly all the salesmen act as if the puppet was the most important person in the world.
4When I told my (much) better half how funny I thought it was, she reminded me about the time she left a dealership where she was ignored, to go to another one. She was promptly waited on, and ended up getting a great deal on a used Mazda SUV that was one of the best vehicles either of us ever had.
Oddly enough, that commercial wasn’t as humorous to her as it had been to me.
Who’da thunk it.
It reminded me that white male privilege has a lot less to do with what my dumb ass has been given unearned, and more to do with how folks who aren’t white males are treated as less than.
All the while being told that they’re being whiners for pointing out what most of us white males take completely for granted.
I’ve said it before with regards to race, and I’ll say it again with regards to gender.
Talk about gaslighting.
Yes, PP, like your wife I have walked out of stores and dealerships because no one wanted to wait on a woman. It’s crazy!
5Never forget the Peter Principle.
6Meyer must have thought the entire team would go along with losing week after week, just to get the rookie qb experience and get another high draft pick next spring.
Lawrence was not the best qb on the team and should have been sat down to learn behind a qb with experience who clearly outplayed the rook in pre-season.
I’m glad Meyer is gone. He was a joke as a pro coach.
7In college and professional sports, winning usually trumps morality. If Meyer was 11-2 it’s doubtful if the complaints would have ever been made public.
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